Received a letter yesterday from a relative.

It was an apology for something that happened over 25 years ago. It wasn’t any kind of abusive situation, just about the way I was treated during a particular event.

My reaction was twofold.

First, the letter brought back long forgotten memories of what happened, and I was angry and sad.

Second, the letter comes at a time when my respect for some relatives is at a real low point. I’m suspicious of the true intent, and yet my inclination is to take it at face value.

The letter expresses the hope of going on from this point with a new and improved relationship.

Forgiveness doesn’t necessarily include a new and improved relationship.